Still waiting for that phone call from your last date? Are you starting to feel desperate and dateless? Check out these dating tips for women and see where you may have gone wrong. You may only have to make a few adjustments to your dating techniques to have the guys chasing you.
Practice these few dating tips and those dating errors will be a thing of the past
Take a honest look at yourself and see if you are putting up any one of these red flags. There’s no greater way to scare a guy that to have you labeled with any one of these dating traits.
1) The Desperate Dater Flag:
Don’t be a cling on… Sure, Guys like to know you like them but calling them the next day after a date for no apparent reason, may come across as needy. Do not suffocate the relationship before it starts. Guys like to move at their own pace so if he is going to call or text message you he will. Chasing after a guy will not work and will only put you on his casual list. He has to think he is chasing you.
2) The Interrogator Dater Flag:
Do you carry an invisible clip board with a check list attached? Are you interviewing him for the role of Mr. Right? If he does not pass the interrogation process would you refuse a second date? Do you feel like you are running out of time and have to find out as much as you can about him on the first date? Lighten up, you will find out more if you let things progress naturally. Everyone is nervous on their first date, so throw away the clip board, you will find out more on your second date once he lets his guard down.
3) Emotional Baggage Dater Flag:
Talking about your ex-boyfriend, ex-husband, or any think ex on your first date or any date is a no… no… Guys do not want to hear about your emotional baggage. The best way to make a guy feel uncomfortable is to have him think he is a replacement ex-something. Remember every guy is different and you should treat them that way. Don’t mold them into what you want them to be. Guys want to have fun on their first date not a psychology course.
4) The Nervous Wreck Dating Flag:
Meeting anyone for the first time can be nerve wrecking for both sides. Especially when neither one knows what to say. Nerves can sometimes cause you to talk a lot; just remember you have two ears so use them to listen by using open ended questions. Once you find a mutual topic the conversation will flow automatically. Whatever you do don’t fall into the trap of drinking too much for ‘Dutch Courage,’ as this can quickly change you into ‘Super Lush’ and become easy prey.
5) The Great Pretender dating Flag:
Agreeing with everything a guy says just to get that second date won’t work. You have to be honest about your likes and dislikes, turning yourself into something you are not will only last a short while. Your real self will pop up one day and he will wonder where the other you went. You have to build a relationship on TRUST so be yourself he might actually like the real YOU.
6) Easy Prey Dating Flag:
Becoming a one night stand is a guarantee it will not progress into a long term relationship. If you are easy prey for him he will think you are easy for anyone. Guys like to be the hunters so give him a challenge. If he is at all interested in the real you he will hang around for that second date. If you can build his interest by showing him your other special attributes then he will be more inclined to stick around.